Hey, thank you so much for the link. I really like Lucy's story. She really went into the balloon's significance, and actually cleared up a lot of my questions.
This is normally where I would make some comment about how the baloons are really condums or the like. However, since you said that it was so hard to have a serious conversation with me on X-mas eve, I figured I would just say that I get it and it is hard to let go (especially of snarky comments).
So far nobody, even you, has commented on the panel: "was it hard?" "Yeah, but it was good." So congratulations. You have grown past the adolescent years, though it took more than the allotted time...
and I will never tire of your comments, snarky or otherwise. Or your turkey and sausage stuffing, or your rendition of "She's leaving home..." "Let's take it from Wednesday!"
I always enjoy the unPCness of some of your parenting sequences. Maybe that's why I was surprised you weren't as hard assed about the deer ("yard rats," we call them -- the deer, not the kids).
But yeah, the balloons represent life dilemmas -- in your son's case, the fear that having will mean losing; in Char's case, the whole "can't have your cake and eat it too" thing. (And before you ask, yes, I AM Dr. Phil!)
Just to complicate matters, should I mention that letting balloons go is basically littering?
As a child, I would've agonized over the let-go-or-not connundrum, too. But at least Charlotte didn't worry about letting them go separately...and therefore being lonely...as I would have done. These days? No balloons in free-flight. Bad for the environment and bad for the birds who might choke on them.
One last balloon thought: Who amongst you remembers the beautiful yet melancholy French children's book "The Red Balloon"? One of my all-time favorites...
I was thinking that a balloon could represent the fragile nature of love, or of spiritual awareness. A fragile, ephemeral thing; a material of a lighter chemical state that must be coaxed into existing on our heavier plane, where the very atoms in the air conspire to push it out if we momentarily lose our grip. Or I could just be drunk.
What I'm saying is that letting a balloon go is indeed littering. Littering heaven.
i love this story! years ago, before ophelia was even two, she begrudgingly allowed me to let her balloon go in a hurricane. obviously, she couldn't talk all that well at the time, but she remembered this long long afterwards. it was one of my most favorite things that she and i have ever done together. love this different and beautiful telling of the same sort of thing.
And I thought you covered another aspect of this so well in your kite story! I'm so glad you also did this with Ophelia, great bonding moment. I'm also very happy that my insanity appeals to you--it hasn't always appealed to everyone...
Hello Jennifer - I love your work and you can count me as a regular reader from now on. There's a shout out on my blog (mpd57) to my few readers which I hope you approve of.
Hey Mike--thanks so much for wonderful review in your blog! I absolutely do approve! You've made my day.
If the moths really are stirring in your wallet, I have two things in print: a story in The ACT-I-VATE Primer (IDW, 2009)--which is a great anthology--and a minicomic of three UNDERWIRE webcomics which you can order from me if you can't get to Bergen Street Comics in Brooklyn. You guessed right: my little boxes ARE supposed to be arranged six to a page for print purposes. And I'll be in two more anthologies coming up, to be announced on my blog: http://goddesscomix.blogspot.com/.
You handle life's transformative moments with sassy, in your face, toughness - never letting it get syrupy, but exposing the beautiful frailty none-the-less. Bravo!
02:01pm / Dec 26, 2009